My ‘not enough-ness” showed up in my life in the following ways: being a workaholic, not using my voice in my marriage, resentment, people-pleasing, feeling stressed all the time, not being present, micromanaging at work, taking pills to sleep, drinking wine regularly to relax.

No matter how hard I worked and achieved nothing made me feel better. I had read the books and gone to the seminars. I wore the right clothes, drove the nice car, and had checked the boxes of society’s prescribed life but I was empty inside. My marriage was disconnected and I felt like I barely knew my kids.

Sound familiar?